Mary’s
School of Sanctity
Lesson #25 – The
Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius – SECOND WEEK – EXPLANATION ON THE THREE
MODES OF HUMILITY
This part of
the Spiritual Exercises is not, strictly speaking, set up in the form of
a meditation. But one could certainly adapt this information into a
meditation. One would take the information given by St. Ignatius and ponder these
points and make the suggested colloquies. One could structure the information
like St. Ignatius does. Below we will first set out the explanation as St.
Ignatius gives it and then we will set forth a structure which one could use if
he were going to meditate on the information.
THE
THREE MODES OF HUMILITY
The first mode
of humility
is necessary for eternal salvation. This requires that I humble and abase
myself as much as is possible for me, in order that I may obey in all things
the law of God Our Lord. Accordingly, I would not give consideration to the
thought of breaking any commandment, divine or human, that binds me under pain
of mortal sin, even though this offense would make me master of all creation or
would preserve my life on earth.
The second mode
of humility
is more perfect than the first. I am in possession of it if my state of mind is
such that I neither desire nor even prefer to have riches rather than poverty,
to seek honor rather than dishonor, to have a long life rather than a short
one, provided that here be the same opportunity to serve God Our Lord, and to
save my soul. Nor would I, for the sake of all creation or the purpose of
saving my life, consider committing a single venial sin.
The third mode
of humility is
the most perfect. This exists when the first and second forms are already
possessed, and the praise and glory of the Divine Majesty being equally served,
I desire and choose poverty with Christ poor
rather than riches, in order to be more like Christ Our Lord; [and] when I
choose reproaches with Christ,
thus, [choosing] suffering rather than honor, and when I am willing to be
considered as worthless and a fool for Christ Who suffered such treatment
before me, rather than to be esteemed as wise and prudent in this world.
If one desires
to attain this third form of humility, it will be very profitable for him to
make the three colloquies on the three classes of men (mentioned earlier). He
should implore Our Lord to be pleased to choose him for this third form of
humility, which is greater and more perfect, so that he may better imitate and
serve Him, provided it be for the equal or greater service and praise of His
Divine Majesty.
Now We Set Up this Information as a Meditation.
The preparatory
prayer is the same as usual: I ask God Our Lord for the grace
that all my intentions, actions, and works may be directed purely to the
service and praise of the Divine Majesty.
The FIRST
PRELUDE: is to think of the three degrees of humility that St. Ignatius sets
out for us.
The SECOND
PRELUDE: to ask for the grace that I desire. Here it will be to ask of Our
Lord the grace that I may attain to the third degree of humility.
The FIRST POINT:
THE 1ST MODE OF HUMILITY requires that one stay out of mortal
sin.
The SECOND
POINT: THE 2ND MODE OF HUMILITY requires one to stay out of
venial sin.
The THIRD
POINT: THE 3RD MODE OF HUMILITY requires one to imitate Our
Lord by choosing poverty and to suffer reproaches like Our Lord did.
The COLLOQUY:
We make the same type of colloquies that we made to Our Lady, Our Lord,
and Our Heavenly Father in the meditation on the Two Standards. Here I will
beg for the third mode of humility which I am so unworthy of and which I need in
order to have the most intimate friendship with the Holy Trinity.
Do we really
desire humility?
We can well
remember Our Lord’s words, “Amen I say to you, unless you be converted, and
become as little children, you shall not enter the kingdom of heaven.
Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, he is the
greater in the kingdom of heaven.” [St. Matthew’s Gospel, 18:3-4]
How humble is
humble enough? If we find ourselves asking this question, then we might well
wonder if we lack magnanimity of soul. For magnanimity requires that we want
to do the most we can to serve God Our Creator and Heavenly
Father.
Our Lord is
telling us that no one gets to heaven without having humility. St. Ignatius
explains to us three modes of humility and that if we possess at least one of
these modes of humility we can indeed save our souls. Yet, we must keep in
mind that his explanation is given to us in order that we can examine ourselves
and see how important humility is to us, and furthermore, to truly examine how
much we love Christ. Are we truly willing to imitate Christ, especially His
humility? St. Ignatius would invite us to ponder these three modes of
humility so closely as to turn our pondering into a meditation bearing the
fruit of begging Christ to increase our humility and our love for Him. Indeed,
St. Ignatius would have us learn so much about our own lack of humility and
subsequent lack of ardor for Christ, that we will then greatly yearn for the
third mode of humility and we will earnestly beg Our Lord to give us the third
mode. Now let us study the three modes of humility in order to increase our
desiring the best for our souls and to foster the deepest and most beautiful
friendship with Christ we can have.
Considerations
for the FIRST
POINT: Those who possess the first mode of humility never want to commit a
mortal sin.
St. Ignatius
tells us that the souls who fall into this first mode are those souls who do
not want to offend God by mortal sin. They truly have a fear of committing
mortal sin. Yet this is the lowest degree of humility and we cannot save our
souls without at least this grade of humility. In order to preserve this
degree, we must follow Our Lord’s precept to pray and be vigilant, “Watch ye,
and pray that ye enter not into temptation.” [St. Matthew’s Gospel,
26:41]
It is so
important to consider that to shoot for such a minimum of humility is not very
generous. What friend would we be to someone if we said to him, “We love you
enough to not want to kill you”? Surely, our love should be far greater than
this!
True friends do
not want to hurt each other in any way. Therefore, we should not
want to hurt Our Lord by anything that would displease Him.
The practical
reality of someone being content to attain only this mode of humility is that
he most likely will not be able to maintain this and will likely fall into
mortal sin. If we keep in mind how fragile our fallen human nature is, we can
clearly see how easily one can fall into sin and lose his soul. Think of the
angels who were created with high intellects and fell. Think of our first
parents, who were dwelling in Paradise and fell. Add to this the fact that
King David, a man according to the heart of God, fell. Further remember Solomon,
who was endowed by God with extraordinary wisdom but fell. Finally think of
how even St. Peter, especially chosen by Our Lord to lead His apostles and His
Church, yet he fell when he denied Our Lord three times. Should we not have a
great fear of becoming lukewarm and settling for mediocrity in our souls? We
should want to stay far away from any thing and any occasion which would not be
Christ-like or that He would see as a danger to our souls. May this be strong
enough evidence to convince us not to be satisfied with having this mode of
humility!
Considerations
for the SECOND
POINT: Those who possess the second mode of humility never want to commit a
venial sin.
St. Ignatius
tells us that the soul in this mode has reached a degree of detachment from
creatures. This soul has attained such holy indifference to temporal things,
such as honor and dishonor, wealth and poverty, health and sickness, a long
life or a short life. This soul wants to avoid venial sin and all occasions of
sin.
Although this
soul is noble in its aspirations, where exactly does this soul stand? Fr.
Hurter gives us these self-examination questions regarding this mode of
humility:
Have we attained this degree? How easily we are
deceived if we look at our good resolution and trust our frequent confessions.
But whence the many relapses into venial sin? Why our many complaints when
adversity strikes us, when the Lord is in earnest and takes us at our word,
when He sends us humiliations, privations and sufferings? Whence that craving
within us, which rules us completely, for honors, comforts, and worldly joys?
Whence this dread of sacrifice, mortification, and self-abnegation? Are we
striving with all our strength to submit to the will of God? For it is self-evident,
on attentive consideration, that this is necessary if we would remain in
the second degree. “He that contemneth small things shall fall little by
little.” [Eccl. 19:1] However, we must strive for a still higher perfection.
Yes, we must be
on our guard constantly to work with all our efforts to despise all venial sin,
especially deliberate venial sin. We must work tirelessly to avoid those
venial sins committed through weakness by recognizing our human frailty and
begging heaven’s assistance in striving to please God in all things and
accepting all crosses and inconveniences.
As edifying as
this mode of humility is described here, we must climb ever higher. For the
tenderest friendship with Christ demands still more of us. The holy union with
Christ which He expects us to seek requires everything from us. Remember, our
God is a jealous God and wants us to love Him with our whole heart, and with our
whole soul, and with our whole mind.
He insists on us giving Him everything. He must be all in all to us. This is
what true charity and Divine Friendship requires. Thus, St. Ignatius explains
to us the highest level of humility to which we will now turn our attention.
Considerations
for the
THIRD POINT: Those who possess the third mode of humility seek to imitate
Christ in all things, even accepting poverty and reproaches for the praise and
glory of the Divine Majesty.
This mode of
humility is the highest. Let us reflect on Fr. Hurter’s inspiring words to
help us desire this mode of humility which leads to perfection.
This degree does not stop at indifference to
poverty or riches, honor or dishonor, but provided the honor of God claims
nothing else, this degree of humility actually decides in favor of that which
the Savior chose as His portion, that is, poverty, shame, and suffering. What a
grand, noble, and exalted disposition of the soul! To come to such a
conclusion the following motives should persuade us:
1) The love of our dear Divine Redeemer. Indeed,
we promised Him, “I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest.”
2) The conviction that whatever the Lord,
Who is wisdom itself, chooses, is the best, the most perfect, and will be the
most useful for us.
3) The example of the saints, who were
encouraged and drawn by the example of Our Divine Savior, and entered upon this
road, seeking, loving, and choosing poverty, contempt, and suffering.
4) Even the example of the children of this world,
who in their love of a human being, as of a child or a bride, or in their hopes
of temporal gain or passing reward, even for carrying out their evil
intentions, make great sacrifices, lead a very troublesome life, and take upon
themselves great hardships. Think of the soldier, the miner, the
railroad-man. Their lives are often harder than the mortified life of the
penitent in the desert or the members of the strictest religious orders.
5) Glance at the reward given, not only in
the hereafter, but already in this life. There ensues even here below, as a
result of a such a disposition of mind, a peace which the world does not and
cannot give, and a joy of the kind which the Apostles experienced when they had
been scourged. “And they indeed went from the presence of the council,
rejoicing that they were accounted worthy to suffer reproach for the name of
Jesus.” [Acts 5:41] “I am,” declares St. Paul, “filled with comfort; I
exceedingly abound with joy in all our tribulation.” No wonder that such souls
have a taste of joy, in fact, are filled with joy; they are even now elevated
above the things of earth, and can say with the Apostle of the gentiles: “But
the things that were a gain to me, the same have I counted loss for Christ.
Furthermore, I count all things to be but loss for the excellent knowledge of
Jesus Christ my Lord.” [Phil. 3:7]
6) The blessing which rests on them for such
a disposition of mind, and on the labors for the salvation of the souls of
others. Truly Apostolic men are indeed apt instruments in the hands of
Christ. They prefer sacrifices, self-denial, and suffering. They do not seek
themselves, but the greater honor of God. Hence, we see the real followers of
Our Divine Savior on the way to the cross rendering great service in the
conversion of sinners.
This third mode
of humility is so perfecting and beautiful we should desire with all our hearts
to have it! We should strive after this exalted degree of humility with the
help of Our Lady and her Divine Son. Let us implore God to elect and elevate
us to it. Let us prepare ourselves by degrees for this grade of humility.
But exactly what
is necessary to reach this mode of humility?
·
Let
us resolve not only to avoid all mortal sin but to despise all venial
sin, indeed to despise the very shadow of sin!
·
Let
us resolve to make good use of the daily opportunities for mortification
and self-denial, to become accustomed to patiently bear rebukes, slights, and
humiliations.
·
Let
us strive to be masters of ourselves and endeavor to be faithful
followers and imitators of Christ Himself.
·
Let
us purify our intentions, and please Our Lord as the Mystical Spouse of
our souls.
There is
nothing higher for the soul to aspire to than the Mystical Marriage with Our
Lord, the heavenly Bridegroom.
Our Lord refers to Himself as the Bridegroom many times in the Gospels, for
indeed, He intends that every elect soul be His spouse. Hence, St. Ignatius
tells us to implore Our Lord to choose us for this mode of humility so we can
better imitate Him and serve Him in our lives. What better result can be
gotten from our cooperation in what we set out to accomplish from the first
meditations on the Principle and Foundation? What noble
friendship with Our Dear Lord Jesus Christ!!
Concluding
thoughts:
Now we find
that we can turn our thoughts to our begging colloquies that St. Ignatius recommended
to those who desire to attain this third form of humility—for only this third
form should satisfy our soul’s hunger for Christ!
COLLOQUY:
[Addressing Our
Lady as St. Ignatius advised us to do.] O, my mother Mary, I desire with all my
heart to have this third degree of humility. Thou, tender Mother and excellent
model of humility, were uniquely fashioned by God to help me, thy poor child to
learn humility. I place myself in thy maternal hands. Please assist me to
despise all sin and all things which are displeasing to Thy Son. Please aid me,
dearest, tenderest, Mother, to embrace all suffering, both moral and physical,
so I can better learn to imitate thy Divine Son. The Divine Bridegroom is attractive
to me and I need thy help, O Mary, to properly dispose my soul for Him. I beg
thee, dearest Mother Mary, to guide me and teach me all I need to know in order
to please thy Son. I will say a Hail Mary.
[Then St.
Ignatius has us address Our Lord with a similar colloquy.] O my dearest Lord
Jesus Christ, I love Thee and I need Thee. I beg Thee to help me by giving me
this third mode of humility. I know I am so unworthy of having this tremendous
gift, and yet, I beg Thee from the bottom of my heart to grant me this deep
humility. O my sweet Jesus, Thy humility is so attractive and charming to me!
O how I long to imitate Thy humility! Alas, I am so weak and inexperienced in
imitating Thee that I have no real idea how to begin. But I know that Thou
will not despise my petition because Thou hast Thyself invited me when Thou
said, “Learn from Me for I am meek and humble of heart,” and “Ask and you shall
receive.” I throw myself at Thy Feet and beg Thee to keep Thy countless
examples of humility ever before my mind so I can ponder them and endeavor to
imitate them. Close with an Anima Christi.
[Then I will
address the Father with a similar colloquy.] O almighty Father, Thou hast given
Thy Dear Son to us to be our Model of virtue. I beg Thee to help me follow Thy
Son’s examples and imitate Him in all things. Help me to faithfully use every
circumstance as a golden opportunity to imitate Thy Divine Son. Help me to have
the strength to suffer whatever Thou art pleased to send me, both moral and physical
suffering, even poverty and bearing the reproaches others inflict upon me.
Help me to
always see that nothing is more important than faithful service to Thee.
Likewise, help me to ever remember that whatever Thou hast chosen for my life
and its circumstances, is because of Thy Providential care. Thou hast loved me
from all eternity and thus, all things are for my good and for Thy Divine Honor
and Glory. Let me delight in seeing Thee glorified in all things. Also, I beg
Thee to help me be ever grateful to Thee for all Thou dost in time and in
eternity. Close with an Our Father.
We have studied
the Three Modes of Humility and have hopefully acquired a great
desire to be of the third mode. In our next two lessons we will study
intimately Our Dear Lord’s Passion which will further help us pour out our
hearts to beg Him to help us imitate His profound humility. By our faithful
imitation of Him we hope to better dispose our souls to receive the wonderful
gift of the third mode of humility. We hope to grow this noble heart-felt desire
in these upcoming lessons/contemplations on the Passion of Our Lord.