Nobody’s Favorite Topic: Purgatory

I happened to come across a little booklet that has changed my life.  And (hopefully) changed my (future) death.  It is called READ ME OR RUE IT by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, and was originally published by this good Dominican in 1936.

It is entirely possible that you have it in your “stash” of leaflets, books, and pamphlets which you always think you’ll get to when you have more time.  Just as I did.  But I never quite made the time.  Until recently.  Now I can’t imagine what a close call I had to missing out on the value of this unassuming little booklet.

Fr. O’Sullivan begins by saying that some books are worth reading, but others should be read without fail.  This booklet is one of the latter.  

We have always been taught to “Pray for the Poor Souls.”  The good nuns (in the ‘50s) impressed on us how important that was.  And …is. We always understood it was a good thing to do so, and that by helping them we might also lessen our own time in Purgatory.

But as the years passed, our prayers for the Poor Souls might, sadly, have metamorphosed into a mechanical 16 words:

May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace, Amen.

Or if we were feeling a little generous, we may have begun it more properly:

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon them.  …  May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, rest in peace, Amen.

It is humbling to acknowledge the hundreds of thousands of times I have said those little prayers while driving or peeling potatoes or mopping floors these many years, but I failed to go that one step farther to always think of the words I was saying. It’s true that the Poor Souls in Purgatory gained some benefit from them, but oh, how much more efficacious might they have been!

Most of us probably think: Of course, I know what Purgatory is.  We’d probably start by saying that it’s a place we don’t want to go, and yet we’d reluctantly agree that it’s infinitely better to go to Purgatory rather than be consigned to the fires of Hell for all eternity.

And if we think more on it, we’d be forced to acknowledge that nearly all souls who are saved are plunged after death into the prison of fire in which they suffer the most intense pain.  So grievous is their suffering that one minute in this awful fire will seem like a century.[1]

St. Thomas Aquinas, the greatest Doctor of the Church, describes the fires of Purgatory as … “being equal in intensity to the fire of Hell, and that the slightest contact with it is more dreadful than all the possible sufferings of this Earth.”[2]

St. Augustine, another of the great Holy Doctors, “teaches that to be purified of their faults previous to being admitted to Heaven, souls after death are subjected to a fire more penetrating, more dreadful than anything we can see, or feel, or conceive in this life.”[3]

St. Cyril of Alexandria does not hesitate to say that “it would be preferable to suffer all the possible torments of Earth until the Judgment day than to pass one day in Purgatory.”[4]

These are pretty frightening warnings.  Were it not for the fact that the existence of Purgatory is an article of the Catholic Faith,[5] many would prefer to believe that the matter is overstated and that God couldn’t possibly wish such pain and suffering on us – thus showing how shallow and vague is the understanding of the value of Purgatory. 

But Purgatory exists to satisfy the Justice of God.  The intensity of the pain, anguish, suffering, and agony of Purgatory correlates with the magnitude of the injustice done to Our Lord.  It is impossible to exaggerate the evil of sin![6]  Consider that if a soul is condemned to Hell for all eternity because of a single unforgiven mortal sin, it is not difficult to understand that a person who has committed many deliberate venial sins (and/or mortal sins which have been forgiven) in his life may have to spend long years in Purgatory to atone for them.  Even if the guilt from them has been remitted through absolution, the debt (pain) due to them remains to be paid in Purgatory.

Our Lord tells us that we shall have to render an account for each and every idle word we say, and that we may not leave our “prison” until we shall have paid the last farthing.  St. Matthew’s Gospel, 5:26.

And if that isn’t enough to worry you (or more helpfully, to give you a wake-up call), think of all the uncharitable thoughts, words, and deeds, laziness, vanity, pride, etc., that you casually commit, but one day will have to pay to that “last farthing.”

The temporal punishment of every one of those sins, venial or (forgiven) mortal, is piling up over our span of life—whether 20, 30, 50 or 90 years– and must be atoned for after death.

While it is worthwhile to focus on the pain of Purgatory, the truth is that this is not the worst of it, unbelievable as it seems!  Though the fire is unimaginably severe, the pain of loss or separation from God will totally eclipse the physical pain, As Fr. O’Sullivan puts it: “The soul is consumed with an intense desire to fly to God, yet it is held back, and no words can describe the anguish of this unsatisfied craving.”[7]

Petty-minded as many of us are, we find ourselves wondering how long we will have to spend in Purgatory.  (We make the treacherous assumption that we will avoid Hell.)  Various saints have written about this, and it seems that the only thing we can expect is that it will be very much longer than is generally believed!  This is not a great comfort, but probably of considerable value to us if it renews our determination to avoid sin, and also to ratchet up our prayers for the Poor Souls.

The actual duration of time to be spent in Purgatory is unknowable. Reason tells us that it depends on the number and seriousness of our sins and the intention and malevolence with which we offended Our Lord.  All kinds of factors will have a bearing on the length of our suffering, including how much penance we did or did not do in this life.  Also, how much we gain by being included in the prayers and good works offered for “the Poor Souls in Purgatory.” (If we are faithful in praying for them, we will surely benefit from their gratitude and help.)

As you surely recall, the Holy Souls cannot pray for themselves.  They can offer up their own pain and sufferings for their loved ones on earth, and for those who pray for them, but they do not benefit from this directly.  Divine Justice demands expiation of their sins.

However, in His great mercy, Our Lord wants them to be in Heaven with Him, and thus, places in our hands the means of helping them!  Prayers offered for them, especially the Rosary, will aid them in securing relief or even release from their fiery confinement.

(Masses, to be sure, would provide great succor if and when there is a valid and uncompromising priest available.  But Our Lord, in His perfect wisdom, has seen fit to close off this avenue of aid at this time, in most places, perhaps allowing us to redouble our prayers, including those wondrously effective little ejaculations that we can say so frequently, applying the Indulgence to the Souls in Purgatory.)

On the subject of ejaculations, Fr. O’Sullivan had some pithy things to say:

Many people have the custom of saying 500 or 1,000 times each little ejaculation, “Sacred Heart of Jesus, I place my trust in Thee!” or the one word, “Jesus.” These are most consoling devotions; they bring oceans of grace to those who practice them and give immense relief to the Holy Souls.

Those who say the ejaculations 1,000 times a day gain 300,000 days’ Indulgence!  What a multitude of souls they can thus relieve! What will it not be at the end of a month, a year, 50 years?  And if they do not say the ejaculations, what an immense number of graces and favors they shall have lost! It is quite possible – and even easy – to say these ejaculations 1,000 times a day. But if one does not say them 1,000 times, let him say them 500 or 200 times.”[8]

Lest you think that helping the Poor Souls is a “one-way street,” keep in mind that they may be of crucial importance in helping you avoid a lengthier or more severe stay in Purgatory.

A reminder: although they cannot help themselves, the Holy Souls can procure great graces for those who help them. It is said that they repay us a thousand times for whatever we do for them!


Praying for the Holy Souls is a Duty, Not an Option.

Hopefully we are coming to the realization of how important it is for us to pray for the Poor Souls in Purgatory.  However, the truth is that we are not free to decide whether or not we want to make the time to do so.  Rather, it is our duty to take the time.   

Just as it is a sin to refuse to give a starving person food necessary to keep him alive, or to come to the aid of a drowning person, or to care for the sick, or alleviate the suffering of an accident victim, so, too, we have an obligation to pray for the Holy Souls in Purgatory.

As Fr. O’Sullivan says, “There is no hunger, no thirst, no poverty, no need, no pain, no suffering to compare with what the Souls in Purgatory endure, so there is no alms more deserving, none more pleasing to God, none more meritorious to us than the alms, the prayers, the Masses we give to the Holy Souls.”

Though there are many organizations willing to help various people fight against injustice, diseases, and a great number of other causes, there are very few whose sole aim is to help the Poor Souls.  It is hard to understand why otherwise-pious Catholics can so foolishly neglect them.  Rather short-sighted of us, isn’t it?  How can we not realize that we may desperately need prayers someday, becoming one of the Poor Souls ourselves?

It is easy to forget the absent Souls in “far-off” Purgatory.  And in a great mercy from Our Lord, He even makes it abundantly beneficial for us to help them, or help our own family or friends who may be enduring untold suffering right now and beseeching us not to forget them.

We know that but we must not forget: they can and do help us earth-bound sinners.  We will have their everlasting gratitude, and they will repay us a thousand times over, even shortening or lessening the severity of our Purgatory.

The big “take-away” from this article, then, must be to remind you of your obligation to pray for the Poor Souls in Purgatory. Yes, it is not only your obligation, but also you should realize it is even in your best interests to do so.

Below is a very fine prayer for the Holy Souls.  Many of you undoubtedly say it regularly, but for any others, it may suffice as a good reminder.


Prayer for Mercy for the Holy Souls in Purgatory

Have Mercy, O gentle Jesus! on the souls detained in Purgatory.  Thou Who for their ransom didst take upon Thyself our human nature and suffer the most cruel death, pity their sighs and the tears shed when they raise their longing eyes toward Thee, and by virtue of Thy passion, cancel the penalty due to their sins.  May Thy Blood, O tender Jesus, Thy Precious Blood, descend into Purgatory to solace and refresh those who there languish in captivity.  Reach forth Thy hand to them, and lead them into the realms of refreshment, light, and peace.  Amen.[9]
 

Plenary Indulgences for the Poor Souls

Six general rules for obtaining a PLENARY INDULGENCE:

1. State of Grace at least when performing the indulgenced act;

2. Complete detachment from sin, even venial sin;

3. Confession (concerning this condition during our time of great apostasy, read this article: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/06/23/to-reach-heaven-should-be-our-lifes-main-work/ )

4. Communion (concerning this condition during our time of great apostasy, read this article: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/06/23/to-reach-heaven-should-be-our-lifes-main-work/ )

5. Prayers for the Pope (concerning this condition during our time of great apostasy, read this article: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/06/23/to-reach-heaven-should-be-our-lifes-main-work/ )

6. Indulgenced act: a special good work with special conditions of place and time

Special indulgenced acts to be performed for obtaining a Plenary Indulgence for the poor souls:

      From November 1-8: Visit to a cemetery, with mental prayer for the Poor Souls, and prayers for the traditional intentions of the pope)
 

      On November 2: Visit to a church, praying one Our Father and one Apostles Creed plus prayers for the traditional intentions of the pope.  Most faithful and informed Catholics should perform the cemetery visit on this day instead of this visit to a church because these Catholics do not have access to a church or chapel which is not a place of compromise.  We should never make such a visit to a conciliar or compromising church — such as a church of the SSPX, the sedevacantists, or the Bishop Williamson Group).  For more information about the reasons for this, principle, read this article: https://catholiccandle.neocities.org/priests/sspx-praying-conciliar-churches.html.

A PARTIAL INDULGENCE can be obtained any time by visiting a cemetery and praying for the Holy Souls.



[1]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.1, p.1.

[2]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.1, p.1.

[3]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.1, p.1.

 

[4]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.1, p.2.

[5]           The existence of Purgatory is a doctrine which every Catholic must believe in order to remain a Catholic and to be saved.

[6]           For an explanation showing that all sin is an infinite evil in three ways and mortal sin is an infinite evil of a fourth way too, read this analysis: https://catholiccandle.neocities.org/faith/the-infinite-evil-of-sin .

 

[7]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.1, p.3.

[8]           Read Me or Rue It, by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P„ (E.D.F.), Tan Books and Publishers,

Rockford, IL, 1992, Ch.5, p.25.

[9]           Quoted from Holy Hour of Reparation, published by Soul Assurance Prayer Plan, Chicago, IL, ©1945, p.27.

Words to Live by – from Catholic Tradition

 

Let Us Fight Darkness of Mind by Fighting Self-Indulgence!

 

Nothing so darkens the mind as being made soft by earthly things.

 

St. Thomas Aquinas, greatest Doctor of the Catholic Church, quoting St. John Chrysostom, Doctor of the Church, in The Catena Aurea on St. John’s Gospel, on Ch. 1, v.10.

 

 

Lesson #41: Temperaments – Choleric Temperament – a Choleric’s Spiritual Combat – Part VI

Philosophy Notes

Catholic Candle note: The article immediately below is part six of the study of the Choleric temperament.  The first five parts can be found here:

1.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #36:  About the Temperaments – Beginning our Study of the Choleric Temperament: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/08/27/lesson-35-about-the-temperaments-the-choleric-temperament/

2.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #37: About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/09/26/lesson-37-about-the-temperaments-continuation-of-the-choleric-temperament/

3.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #38 — About the Temperaments – Continuing our Study of the Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/10/24/lesson-38-temperaments-choleric-temperament-their-spiritual-combat/

4.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #39 About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament – That Temperament’s Spiritual Combat – Part IV: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/11/26/lesson-39-temperaments-choleric-temperament-their-spiritual-combat-part-iv/

 

5.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #40: Temperaments – Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat – Part V: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/12/30/lesson-40-temperaments-choleric-temperament-their-spiritual-combat-part-v/

 

Mary’s School of Sanctity

Lesson #41 – About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament: a Choleric’s Spiritual Combat — Part VI

Note: When referring to a person with a choleric temperament in this article we simply will refer to him as a choleric.

As we continue our study of the choleric temperament, we examine some aspects of anger more closely because anger is one of the most prominent features of the choleric temperament (and unreasonable anger is one of its greatest dangers).

In this present lesson, we will look more at what anger does to the body and the role that reason plays in anger.  This present examination of anger focuses on signs which a person can use to detect anger in himself.  We will see the importance of using these signs when we see (in a future article) what a great danger excess anger can be for a choleric.

What Does Anger Do to the Body?

St. Thomas explains that there is a bodily transmutation that occurs in the passions of the soul.  This transmutation is in proportion to the movement of appetite, that is, the desire.  He says that every appetite tends with greater force to repel that which is contrary to it.  Here is how he explains this concept with regards to the passion of anger:

Since the appetitive movement of anger is caused by some injury inflicted, as by a contrary that is present; it follows that the appetite tends with great force to repel the injury by the desire of vengeance; and hence ensures great vehemence and impetuosity in the movement of anger.   And because the movement of anger is not one of recoil, which corresponds to the action of cold, but one of prosecution, which corresponds to the action of heat, the result is that the movement of anger produces fervor of the blood and vital spirits around the heart, which is the instrument of the soul’s passions.  And hence it is that, on account of the heart being so disturbed by anger, those chiefly who are angry betray signs of it in their outer members.  For, as St. Gregory says [ De Moralis volume 30] the heart that is inflamed with the stings of its own anger beats quick, the body trembles, the tongue stammers, the countenance takes fire, the eyes grow fierce, they that are well-known are not recognized.  With the mouth indeed he shapes a sound, but the understanding knows not what it says.[1] 


How is reason involved with the passion of anger?

There are two aspects of the relationship of reason and anger that we will address at this time: 1) How anger requires an act of reason, and 2) how the heat of anger counteracts the proper use of the reason.

1) How anger requires an act of reason

In our last Lesson (#40), we discussed St. Thomas’s statement: “Anger is the desire to hurt another for the purpose of just vengeance.”  This just vengeance is as a repayment for an injury done.  There are a variety of types of injuries which we pointed out also in Lesson #40.  Reason is used in determining that an injury was done and what is proper to do about the injury.

St. Thomas explains for us how reason is involved in the passion of anger.  First, St.  Thomas quotes Aristotle saying, “Anger listens to reason somewhat,”[2] and afterward tells us the following:

Anger is a desire for vengeance.  However, vengeance implies a comparison between the punishment to be inflicted and the hurt done; wherefore the Philosopher says in Ethics Bk. 7 ch.6 #1149b1, that anger, as if it had drawn the inference that it ought to quarrel with such a person, is therefore immediately exasperated. However, to compare and to draw an inference is an act of reason.  Therefore, anger, in a fashion, requires an act of reason.[3]

Even though the passions are connected to our bodies in what is called the sensitive appetite or desire, St. Thomas makes it clear that our reason is certainly also involved in what we do with our passions, including anger.  He explains in these words:

The movement of the appetitive power may follow an act of reason in two ways.  In the first way, it follows the reason in so far as the reason commands: and thus the will follows reason, wherefore it is called the rational appetite.  In another way, it follows reason in so far as the reason denounces, and thus anger follows reason.  For the Philosopher says (De Problematibus section 28; probl. 3) that anger follows reason, not in obedience to reason’s command, but as a result of reason’s denouncing the injury.  Because the sensitive appetite is subject to the reason, not immediately but through the will.

We must keep in mind another aspect of anger, and that is, the second point given just above.

2) How the heat of anger counteracts the proper use of the reason.

St. Thomas relates what St. Gregory says in his De Moralis that anger “withdraws the light of understanding, since it [anger] confounds the mind by stirring it [the mind] thoroughly”.[4]

St. Thomas delves into the topic further as follows:

Although the mind or reason makes no use of a bodily organ in its proper act, yet, since it needs certain sensitive powers for the execution of its act, the acts of which powers are hindered when the body is disturbed, it follows of necessity that any disturbance in the body hinders even the judgment of reason; as is clear in the case of drunkenness or sleep. However, it has been stated (A. 2) that anger, above all, causes a bodily disturbance in the region of the heart, so much as to effect even the outward members. Consequently, of all the passions, anger is the most manifest obstacle to the judgment of reason, according to Ps. 30:10: “My eye is troubled with wrath.”[5]

St. Thomas adds:

The beginning of anger is in the reason, as regards the appetitive movement, which is the formal element of anger.  But the passion of anger forestalls the perfect judgment of reason, as though it listened but imperfectly to reason, on account of the commotion of the heat urging to instant action, which commotion is the material element of anger.  In this respect it hinders the judgment of reason.[6]

St. Thomas gives us an additional explanation about reason being hindered by anger.  He begins by quoting St. Gregory as saying, “when anger does not vent itself outwardly by the lips, inwardly it burns the more fiercely.”[7]

Then St. Thomas continues as follows:

As stated above (A. 3; Q. 46, A. 4), anger both follows an act of reason, and hinders the reason: and in both respects it may cause taciturnity [that is, being uncommunicative by speech].  On the part of the reason, when the judgment of reason prevails so far, that although it does not curb the appetite in its inordinate desire for vengeance, yet it curbs the tongue from unbridled speech. Wherefore Gregory says (Moral. v, 30): Sometimes when the mind is disturbed, anger, as if in judgment, commands silence.  On the part of the impediment to reason because, as stated above (A. 2), the disturbance of anger reaches to the outward members, and chiefly to those members which reflect more distinctly the emotions of the heart, such as the eyes, face, and tongue; wherefore, as observed above (A. 2), the tongue stammers, the countenance takes fire, the eyes grow fierce.  Consequently, anger may cause such a disturbance, that the tongue is altogether deprived of speech; and taciturnity is the result.[8]

This is an ideal time to turn our attention to our next points of investigation.    In our next lesson we will look at the dangers that may occur if one does not watch his anger closely and/or does not confirm if his anger is just.



[1]           This quote is taken from St. Thomas’s question, “Whether Anger above All Causes Fervor in the Heart?  Found in the  Summa Theologica  Ia IIae Q. 48 a.2 Respondeo

    

It is interesting to note a distinction that St. Thomas makes regarding fervor.  He says that the passion of love, which is the beginning and cause of all passions, itself, causes a heat of fervor.  Anger, too, causes a heat; however, the fervor caused by love differs from that of anger.   Furthermore, anger increases the fervor of love and makes it [love] to be felt more in the case where a person senses that what he loves is done an injury.  Here is St. Thomas’s explanation of the differences in fervor:

 

The fervor of love has a certain sweetness and gentleness; for it tends to the good that one loves, whence it is likened to the warmth of the air and of the blood.  For this reason, sanguine temperaments are more inclined to love; and hence the saying that love springs from the liver, because of the blood being formed there.  On the other hand, the fervor of anger has a certain bitterness with a tendency to destroy, for anger seeks to be avenged on the contrary evil: whence it [anger] is likened to the heat of fire and of the bile, and for this reason Damascene says in De Fide Orthodox that it [anger] ‘results from an exhalation of the bile whence it takes its name chole.’ (Taken from the Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.48 a.2 ad.1.

 

[2]           Aristotle’s Ethics Bk.7; ch.6, #1149b1.

 

[3]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.46, a.4, Respondeo.

 

[4]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.48 a.3, Sed Contra.

[5]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.48, a.3, Respondeo.

 

[6]           Summa Theologica, Ia Iiae, Q.48, a.3, ad.1.

 

[7]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.48, a.4, Sed Contra quote is from Pope St. Gregory the Great’s De Moralis, vol. 30.

[8]           Summa Theologica. Ia IIae. Q.48. a.4. Respondeo (bracketed words added for clarity).

Words to Live by – from Catholic Tradition

 

Let Us Not Be Self-Indulgent and Impulsive!

 

Blessed is he who, setting aside his own liking and inclination, considers things according to reason and justice before doing them.

 

Quoted from Prayer Of A Soul Taken With Love, #42, by St. John Of The Cross, Mystical Doctor of the Church

 

Lesson #40: Temperaments – Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat Part V

Philosophy Notes

Catholic Candle note: The article immediately below is part five of the study of the Choleric temperament.  The first four parts can be found here:

1.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #36:  About the Temperaments – Beginning our Study of the Choleric Temperament: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/08/27/lesson-35-about-the-temperaments-the-choleric-temperament/

2.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #37: About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/09/26/lesson-37-about-the-temperaments-continuation-of-the-choleric-temperament/

3.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #38 — About the Temperaments – Continuing our Study of the Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/10/24/lesson-38-temperaments-choleric-temperament-their-spiritual-combat/

4.    Mary’s School of Sanctity – Lesson #39 About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament – That Temperament’s Spiritual Combat – Part IV: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/11/26/lesson-39-temperaments-choleric-temperament-their-spiritual-combat-part-iv/


Mary’s School of Sanctity

Lesson #40 About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study the Choleric Temperament: Their Spiritual Combat – Part V

Note: When referring to a person with a choleric temperament in this article we simply will label him as a choleric.

In our last lesson we explained in general the passion of anger.  We saw that anger is caused by a concurrence of several passions so that anger involves a hope of vengeance (whether just or unjust).  We included the following lists of points which will need to be discussed in order to better understand anger as a passion and to see how crucial it is for anyone to be well aware of the proper use of anger.   

·         What does anger do and how does it move the soul to action?

 

·         What role does reason play in the use of anger?

·         How does justice fit in with the use of anger?

·         If anger can be unjust, and if can lead to many dangers; what are these possible dangers?

·         How should one fight his feelings of unjust anger?

Because cholerics are very prone to anger, they have a special need for caution regarding their anger.  Hence, it is so important that they have a good comprehension of the passion of anger.

So let us begin by giving some background information on anger and how it works in the soul.

What motivates anger?

St. Thomas Aquinas explains that anger arises in connection with something we suffer or that we perceive that we suffer. Here is his explanation:

Anger is the desire to hurt another for the purpose of just vengeance.  However, unless some injury has been done, there is no question of vengeance; nor does any injury provoke one to vengeance, but only that which is done to the person who seeks vengeance; for just as everything naturally seeks its own good, so does it [everything] naturally repel its own evil. But injury done by anyone does not affect a man unless in some way it be something done against him.  Consequently, the motive of a man’s anger is always something done against him.[1]

This anger as a result of something done to us can include something done to others as St. Thomas shows here:

If we are angry with those who harm others, and seek to be avenged on them, it is because those who are injured belong in some way to us: either by some kinship or friendship, or at least because of the nature we have in common.[2]

In addition to harm done to ourselves and/or others, we can also take offense if something we love is despised by another, as St. Thomas explains here:

When we take a very great interest in a thing, we look upon it as our own good; so that if anyone despise it, it seems as though we ourselves were despised and injured.[3]

St. Thomas also tells us about a concept that seems paradoxical but is nonetheless true.  He puts forth the objection as follows and then answers it:

Objection #4: Further, he that holds his tongue when another insults him, provokes him to greater anger, as Chrysostom observes (Hom. xxii, in Ep. ad Rom.)[4]. But by holding his tongue he does the other no harm.  Therefore, a man is not always provoked to anger by something done against him.

Reply #4: Silence provokes the insulter to anger when he thinks it is due to contempt, as though his anger were slighted and a slight is an action.[5]

Of course, when we are insulted, Our Lord would not want us to retaliate but to imitate Him by being meek.  He was insulted many times and did not open His Mouth.  So if someone takes offense because we silently take an insult, we need not worry about that person’s attitude.  We have an obligation to set a good example whether other people like it or not.

St. Thomas explains how the main cause of anger is someone slighting us or showing us contempt.  He quotes Aristotle saying that anger is “a desire, with sorrow, for vengeance, on account of a seeming slight done unbecomingly.[6]

 St. Thomas explains being slighted as a motivation for anger as follows:

All the causes of anger are reduced to slight. For slight is of three kinds, as stated in [Aristotle’s work] Rhetoric Bk.2; ch.2, #1378a31 viz., contempt,   despiteful treatment, i.e., hindering one from doing one’s will, and insolence; and all motives of anger are reduced to these three.  Two reasons may be assigned for this.  First, because anger seeks another’s hurt as being a means of just vengeance, wherefore it seeks vengeance in so far as it seems just.  However, just vengeance is taken only for that which is done unjustly; hence, that which provokes anger is always something considered in the light of an injustice.

Wherefore the Philosopher says (Rhetoric Bk.2, ch. 3 #1380b16) that men are not angry if they think they have wronged someone and are suffering justly on that account; because there is no anger at what is just.  However, injury is done to another in three ways: namely, through ignorance, through passion, and through choice.  Then, most of all, a man does an injustice, when he does an injury from choice, on purpose, or from deliberate malice, as stated in Ethics Bk. 5, ch. 8 #1135b24 &1136a4.  Wherefore we are most of all angry with those who, in our opinion, have hurt us on purpose.  For if we think that someone has done us an injury through ignorance or through passion, either we are not angry with them at all, or very much less, since to do anything through ignorance or through passion takes away from the notion of injury, and to a certain extent calls for mercy and forgiveness.  Those, on the other hand, who commit an injury on purpose, seem to sin from contempt; wherefore we are angry with them most of all.  Hence, the Philosopher says (Rhetoric Bk.2, ch. 3 #1380a34) that we are either not angry at all, or not very angry with those who have acted through anger, because they do not seem to have acted slightingly.

The second reason is because a slight is opposed to a man’s excellence because men think little of things that are not worth much ado (Rhetoric Bk. 2, ch. 2 #1378b13). However, we seek for some kind of excellence from all our goods.  Consequently whatever injury is inflicted on us, in so far as it is derogatory to our excellence, seems to savor of a slight.[7]

St. Thomas tells us about various forms of being slighted, such as, being forgotten by others; that others should rejoice in our misfortunes; that they [others] should make known our evils; being hindered from doing as we like. He explains these in details as follows:

Each of those causes amounts to some kind of slight.  Thus, forgetfulness is a clear sign of slight esteem, for the more we think of a thing the more is it fixed in our memory.  Again, if a man does not hesitate by his remarks to give pain to another, this seems to show that he thinks little of him: and those too who show signs of hilarity when another is in misfortune, seem to care little about his good or evil.  Again, he that hinders another from carrying out his will, without deriving thereby any profit to himself, seems not to care much for his friendship. Consequently, all those things, in so far as they are signs of contempt, provoke anger.[8]

St. Thomas continues his treatment of the causes of anger still further in this section of the Summa.  One additional note we need to take from St. Thomas is his comment on the fact that, when a man excels in some aspect, e.g., he is wealthy or wise, he can be angered easily.  The reason he gives for this is:

However, it is evident that the more excellent a man is, the more unjust is a slight offered him in the matter in which he excels.  Consequently, those who excel in any matter, are most of all angry, if they be slighted in that matter; for instance, a wealthy man in his riches, or an orator in his eloquence, and so forth.[9]

On the other hand, St. Thomas explains that those who suffer from a lack of excellence in some way also become easily angered.  His comment follows:

Secondly, the cause of anger, in the man who is angry, may be considered on the part of the disposition produced in him by the motive aforesaid. However, it is evident that nothing moves a man to anger except a hurt that grieves him, while whatever savors of defect is above all a cause of grief since men who suffer from some defect are more easily hurt.  And this is why men who are weak, or subject to some other defect, are more easily angered, since they are more easily grieved.[10]

There is a connection we should briefly mention here between anger and humility.   One’s excellence – real or perceived – must be accompanied by humility.  Otherwise, a person would be greatly tempted to think he is better than he really is and he would fall into anger if others do not recognize his excellence.  Likewise, if someone has a defect which he could make efforts to overcome and he does not try to improve, he could also fall into anger if anyone attributes his defects to his refusal to make the necessary efforts.

A Preview…

In our next lesson we will look more at what anger does to the body and the role that reason plays in anger.



[1]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.47, a.1, Respondeo (bracketed word added for clarification).

[2]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q.47, a.1 ad 2.

[3]           Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a. 1, ad 3.

[4]           This citation refers  St. John Chrysostom in his Homily 22 for St. Paul’s Epistle to the Romans

[5]           Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a.1, ad 4.

 

[6]           Quote taken from Aristotle’s Rhetoric Book 2, chapter 2, #1378a31.

[7]           Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a.2, Respondeo.

[8]           Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a.2, ad 3.

[9]           Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a.3, Respondeo.

[10]         Summa Theologica , Ia IIae, Q.47, a.3, Respondeo.

Words to Live by – from Catholic Tradition

 

The Mystical Doctor of the Catholic Church reminds us that God Protects Us during the Darkness of our Times.

 

Words of St. John of the Cross:

 

Live in Faith and Hope even though you are in darkness, because it is in these darknesses that God protects your soul.  Cast your care upon God, for He watches over you and will not forget you.  Do not think that He leaves you alone; that would be an affront to Him.

 

St. John of the Cross in a letter to a Discalced Carmelite nun shortly before Pentecost, 1590.

 

 

Lesson #39: Temperaments – Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat Part IV

Philosophy Notes

Mary’s School of Sanctity

Lesson #39 About the Temperaments – Continuing Our Study of the Choleric Temperament – That Temperament’s Spiritual Combat – Part IV

Note: In this article, when referring to a person with a choleric temperament, we simply call him a “choleric”.

In our last lesson we addressed the choleric’s type of pride.  We saw how pride is one of the main propensities that a choleric must be aware of in himself so he can be on guard against it.  His pride tends to drive him quickly to extremes.  One of the most dangerous things that his pride sparks in him is anger.   In this lesson we will delve into how anger, which is a natural human passion, is especially a problem area for the choleric.

Anger – a Natural Dispositional Inclination for the Choleric

St. Thomas Aquinas explains in his Summa Theologica[1] how the choleric temperament is prone to anger.  First of all, St. Thomas explains the causes of anger.  Anger is an irascible passion in man.

St. Thomas discusses the causes of the passion of anger.  He tells us that passions can be caused in two ways: 1) on the part of the objects of what a man desires; and 2) on the part of the subject who does the action of desiring.  In what we are studying now in these lessons, the subject is man.

We must remember that man is a rational animal and when it comes to the objects of what a man desires, we find that man seeks certain things because he is, by nature, an animal.  Thus, he seeks the bodily pleasures which are necessary to preserve not only his own life, but also those pleasures which are meant to be used to propagate the species of man.  So St. Thomas explains that if we consider man simply as an animal, then bodily desires are stronger than anger.

On the other hand, St. Thomas tells us that when considering man as a rational being, then anger is more natural to man than his bodily desires, in so far as anger follows reason more than desire does.  St. Thomas says, “It is natural to everything to rise up against things contrary and hurtful.”  (In a future lesson, we will discuss reason’s role in anger.)

St. Thomas shows how the temperament is another cause of anger, in the following words:

[I]f we consider the nature of the individual, in respect to his particular temperament, thus anger is more natural than desire; for the reason that anger is prone to ensue from the natural tendency to anger, more than desire, or any other passion is to ensue from a natural tendency to desire, which tendencies result from a man’s individual temperament.  Because disposition to anger is due to a bilious temperament; and of all the humors, the bile moves quickest; for it is like fire.  Consequently, he that is temperamentally disposed to anger is sooner incensed with anger than he that is inflamed with desire; and for this reason, the Philosopher[2] says (Ethics Bk. 7; ch. 6 #1126b30) that a disposition to anger is more liable to be transmitted from parent to child, than a disposition to desire [i.e., bodily desires].[3]

So let us set up a plan of study about this inclination that the choleric has.  We have all heard of just anger.  Our Lord used this when He kicked the money changers out of the Temple.  Yet, unfortunately more often we see that anger is not used justly. Therefore, it is very important to understand anger and to moderate this passion.  In order to learn how to use anger properly, we need to see the following:

·         Basically, what does anger do insofar as how it moves the soul into action?

·         What role does reason play in the use of anger?

·         How does justice fit in with the use of anger?

·         If anger is unjust, it can lead to many dangers.  What are these dangers?

·         How can one rid himself of feelings of unjust anger?

Understanding Anger as a Passion

St. Thomas explains to us that anger is a special passion because anger is caused by a concurrence of several passions, “because the movement of anger does not arise except on account of some pain inflicted, and unless there be desire and hope of revenge: for, as the Philosopher says in Rhetoric Bk. 2 ch. 2 #1378a31, ‘the angry man hopes to punish; since he craves for revenge as being possible.’[4]

St. Thomas, quoting St. Augustine, tells us, “Anger craves for revenge,” and revenge belongs to justice.  Hence, anger is something good.  Furthermore, St. Thomas says that “Anger is always accompanied by hope, wherefore it causes pleasure, as the Philosopher says (Rhetoric Bk. 2; ch. 2 #1378b1).  But the object of hope and of pleasure is a good.  Therefore, good is also the object of anger.”[5]

A little after thins explanation, St. Thomas teaches how man can desire both good and evil either simply by following and adhering to the good or recoiling from evil, or man can desire in a more complex way by desiring some good or evil being in another or done to another, and either seeking this deed or recoiling from this deed.

St. Thomas then continues:

This is evident in the case of love and hatred: for we love someone, in so far as we wish some good to be in him; and we hate someone, in so far as we wish some evil to be in him.  It is the same with anger; for when a man is angry, he wishes to be avenged on someone.  Hence, the movement of anger has a twofold tendency: viz., 1) to vengeance itself, which it desires and hopes for as being a good, wherefore it takes pleasure in it; and 2) to the person on whom it seeks vengeance, as to something contrary and hurtful, which bears the character of evil.

We must, however, observe a twofold difference in this respect, between anger on the one side, and hatred and love on the other. The first difference is that anger always regards two objects: whereas love and hatred sometimes regard but one object, as when a man is said to love wine or something of the kind, or to hate it. The second difference is that both the objects of love are good: since the lover wishes good to someone, as to something agreeable to himself: while both the objects of hatred bear the character of evil: for the man who hates, wishes evil to someone, as to something disagreeable to him.  Whereas anger regards one object under the aspect of evil, viz., the noxious person, on whom it seeks to be avenged.  Consequently, it is a passion somewhat made up of contrary passions.[6]

Because, anger is driven by the hope of revenge, we can see how great care must be taken when one is using anger because we are obliged in conscience make sure our anger is just.

 A Preview …

In our next lesson we will pick up with the bullets points given above and continue our investigation of the importance of using our reason when dealing with all aspects of anger.  In this way, we will be better acquainted with one of the major challenges the choleric has in dealing with the weaknesses of his temperament.



[1]           This section is summarized from the Summa Theologica I-II Q.46 art. 5 Respondeo.

[2]           The Philosopher referred to here is Aristotle.


[3]           Summa Theologica, Ia IIae, Q. 46, a.5, Respondeo.

[4]           Summa Theologica Ia Iiae, Q.46 a.1, Respondeo.

 

[5]           Summa, Ia Iiae, Q.46, a.2, Sed Contra.


[6]           Summa, Ia Iiae, Q.46, a.2, Respondeo (numbers added for clarity).

Our Lord Wants You to Be With Him in Heaven

In the October Catholic Candle, there was an article on the Sacred Heart which demonstrated the great and loving help that Our Lord gives us so that we can be with Him in Heaven.

Many people have a vague idea that they’d like to go to Heaven.  That is, if they even think about it at all.  They go about their daily lives and hope that they are somehow conforming to God’s commandments, although without inconveniencing themselves too much.

Other people understand that more is expected of them, that Christ laid down a very specific plan for them to get to Heaven.  He came down to earth, established His Church, and suffered and died that we might attain salvation.

But Christ didn’t leave us floundering and rudderless, uncertain what we were to do to get to Heaven.  He loves us so much that He gave us multitudinous helps so that we might be forever happy with Him in Heaven.  For example, He gave us the Ten Commandments, the Mass, the Sacraments, thousands of examples of heroic Saints, Catholic books, great Doctors of the Church, and one sermon in particular that especially stands out: the Sermon on the Mount.

In Chapter 5 of St. Matthew’s Gospel (part of which is printed below), Our Lord gives us explicit instructions as to how we are to live our daily lives:

And seeing the multitudes, He went up unto a mountain, and when he was set down, His disciples came unto Him.

And opening His mouth, He taught them, saying:

      Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven.

      Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land.

      Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

      Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice: for they shall have their fill.

      Blessed are the merciful:  for they shall obtain mercy.

      Blessed are the clean of heart: for they shall see God.

      Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called children of God.

      Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven.

These instructions, and the additional ones that followed, were not mere suggestions.  They were definite guides for us that, if followed, would lead us to Heaven.  Which was Christ’s intention as He so loved us, His creatures, that He wanted us to have eternal peace and happiness with Him forever.

So, it is time to reflect again on all that Our Lord has done for us, and is continuing to do for us.  You will see there is no limit to what lengths He has gone to aid us in gaining our salvation.  We should love Him and thank Him by living a life according to His will.

Know His will and pray for the courage and strength to follow it.  He suffered and died for us.  He keeps us in existence.  He helps us in so many ways.  It’s easy to love Him for all He has done for us, and continues to do!

Words to Live by – from Catholic Tradition


The Importance of Controlling Ourselves


The great Mystical Doctor teaches:


Conquering the tongue is better than fasting on bread and water.


St. John of the Cross, minor work entitled Other Counsels, #12.

Lesson #38: Temperaments – Choleric Temperament – Their Spiritual Combat

Philosophy Notes

Mary’s School of Sanctity

Lesson #38 —

Note: When referring to a person with a choleric temperament in this article we simply will call him “a choleric”.

In our last lesson we briefly described the general weaknesses of a choleric who wasn’t guarding himself and trying to love God. Thus, he has bad will. We touched upon the fact that if a person with a choleric temperament doesn’t guard himself and strive to love God, he can easily slip into the weaknesses of his temperament. Here we list again for reference the weaknesses we listed previously:

Weaknesses of the Choleric Temperament:1

  • Hardness

  • Nurtured hatred and desire for revenge

  • Obstinacy

  • Insensibility

  • Anger

  • Pride (includes over-confidence; criticizing others; excessive competitiveness)

  • Ambition

  • Violence, cruelty, and arrogance upon meeting with resistance

  • Lack of delicacy of feeling, insensitive to the feelings of others

  • Coldness

  • Indifference

  • Impetuosity

Each temperament has its own unique struggles and challenges in trying to live a virtuous life. As Catholics it is important for us to understand ourselves and others better in order to appreciate the reality that we are indeed in the Church Militant with a formidable enemy, Satan, who has been practicing his evil on the human race ever since Adam’s Fall. We must get to know our own inclinations and those of our neighbor so we can learn to love our neighbor more perfectly. This analysis of the spiritual combat of the choleric temperament is meant to foster such knowledge which will benefit those with the choleric temperament as well as those who do not have this temperament. We want to increase in charity and be able to help our loved ones and our neighbor in general. Therefore, it is crucial to gain as much comprehension as possible of the pitfalls each temperament has.

With this in mind let us see how these weaknesses of the choleric are closely linked together and how Satan spurs the choleric on by trying to make of the choleric a bundle of uncontrollable passions and emotions.

Every Temperament has its own Form of Pride. Let’s Examine the Particular Struggle the Choleric has with Pride.

We must face the reality that Satan hates Christ and wants all humans to be trapped in pride as a preparation for damnation. “Never suffer pride to reign in thy mind, or in thy words: for from it all perdition took its beginning.” Tobias, 4:14. It is a fact that every temperament has a particular form of pride and such pride comes in varying degrees.

Since pride is the root of all evil, it is important to start our further investigation of the weaknesses of the choleric by probing deeper into his typical form of pride. As we mentioned earlier in these lessons concerning the temperaments, not all persons of a particular temperament are exactly alike.

Although no two people are exactly alike, there are some tendencies to pride that show up especially in the choleric temperament. Satan certainly takes advantage of these inclinations in order to make a choleric into a slave of pride. Satan knows that when a choleric is caught up in his pride, all the other weaknesses seem to follow along as if they were attached to this pride. The choleric’s pride shows up in his overconfidence and ambition for fame or power. He appears to be extremely set upon getting everyone’s attention and keeping it.

Because all pride is blinding, the choleric can be the type of person who is self-centered and he doesn’t even realize it.

He doesn’t see that he has any failings. [If he does see any, he makes light of them.] He gets upset if anyone should point out any defect in him. On the other hand, he is apt to find faults in everyone else. He is constantly criticizing others, whether in his thoughts or words.

He tends to bully others and thereby force them to do his bidding. Because he is successful in pressuring others and getting his way, he tends to oppress anyone who dares to go against him.

His bullying tends to be in sharp words, insults, threats and even trying to pressure others into feeling guilty for opposing him. He can be very vindictive to those he views as his enemy. He can go so far as to take revenge on others and destroy their property and their good name.

He can bully all those around him and get them to join him in putting pressure on the one who is trying to oppose him (otherwise known as ganging up on his “oppressor” and putting him in the “doghouse”), thereby ostracizing his opponent.

A choleric with unchecked pride can easily be despotic. In human history there are countless examples of tyrants, and men set on taking control of as much of the world as they could. Many famous dictators were of the choleric temperament.

Because the choleric is so focused on wanting to be esteemed by others, he tends to be excessively competitive. He is often considered to be a perfectionist and this attribute ties in with his wanting to be viewed as if he is the best in everything. Cholerics are apt to be in sports and other contests. Competition in itself is not bad. But a choleric trapped in pride is so intent on winning that he makes a very sore loser. He doesn’t take defeat well at all.

The reader may think we are painting the worst-case scenario; yet, our intention is to inform the choleric that he really needs to be on high alert for his pride so he does not become an overbearing and domineering person. In other words, if a choleric does not have self-knowledge, he will not be aware of his own tendencies and hence will not fight diligently against them.

In consequence of his lack of concern about his spiritual progress, his pride remains unchecked, and the other weaknesses of his temperament easily latch onto his pride. He gets impatient when things do not go his way and this naturally leads to anger. His pride readily harbors grudges and nurses hatred in his heart which can readily turn into forms of violence, cruelty, and revenge. When he doubles-down in his pride, he is like a stubborn bull and forms an obstinate hardness in his heart. His heart is cold, insensible, and indifferent to the needs and/or feelings of his neighbor.

He is likely, then, to not stop and consider what he is doing and the many consequences of his actions. Remember, we said that this type of choleric, who has bad will, is not on the right path. He has become habituated to being impetuous in his one-track mind which is so focused on only himself.

So, What should a Choleric do to keep the Enemy (Pride), at Bay?

In this section we wish to make suggestions for the choleric in a general way. In upcoming lessons, we will get into more details of how a choleric can curb his pride and subsequent anger as well as his other weaknesses. Likewise, we will address how choleric men can best help themselves and in turn, how choleric women can guard themselves against their dangerous inclinations, too.

Self-knowledge is a gift from God and we must pray to acquire this gift.

1) Pray for self-knowledge. Pray hard for humility and to be receptive to the insights and observations of others, especially when they point out your failings/defects.

2) Mistrust yourself. Seek advice from others often! Do not presume that you are right in your thinking or opinions. Remind yourself that you have so much to learn.

3) Try to put yourself in other people’s shoes. This is so helpful in order to draw yourself away from inordinate self-love and self-centeredness.

4) Work hard on meekness. Endeavor to study Our Lord Jesus Christ and the way He acted in the Gospels. Meditating on the life of Christ is so very crucial for a choleric. Search to see how gentle and selfless Christ was during His whole earthly life. Ask yourself constantly, “How would He handle this situation?

5) Work hard on becoming selfless. This is not impossible and you must keep Our Meek and Humble Lord and Shepherd of souls in your mind. Remember, He is the model for us Catholics to follow, including cholerics, who tend to be rather high-strung, fast-moving leaders. Cholerics must learn to be followers of Our Lord who is their Shepherd and Leader.

6) Work especially on becoming a deeper thinker. Look at life as a means to know God better, and this includes diligently thinking things through to be sure you are doing God’s Will and not your own.

What can Non-Choleric People do to help a Choleric with Bad Will to Master Himself and to Fight Pride?

Again, our attempt in this section of our current lesson is to list some general suggestions of how to help the choleric. We will get into more specifics in future lessons when we are setting out more details of how the choleric can help himself (with God’s assistance, of course!).

1) Pray for him. A choleric of bad will can be heavy-handed and difficult to bear; however, as we pray for the necessary patience in dealing with him, we must not forget to pray for the choleric himself.

2). Offer up the cross of bearing with the bad-willed choleric. In addition to prayer for the conversion of this type of choleric, it is God’s Will that we offer up the suffering caused by the choleric for the choleric’s salvation. In this way, we can not only bear the cross better, but also we can gain merit from this God-sent cross.

3) Do not give in to him. Choleric pressure can be intense but it is so important not to let him get his way when he is trying to bully people.

4) Be meek to him. Again, as difficult as this may seem to be, it is highly important for him to see Christ in you so he can learn to be more Christ-like.

5) Help him when circumstances allow. [That is when the bad-willed choleric becomes more receptive.] This is an additional way to show him Christ-like charity by helping the bad-willed choleric to become reasonable. Help him to see his false reasoning.

6) Remind yourself that you have to save your own soul. As Our Lord tells us to be careful to remove the beam in our own eyes before attempting to remove the mote in our neighbor’s eye, we must remain calm and have peace of soul while we work diligently on our salvation. We must remember that helping other souls is primarily God’s work, and we are simply His instruments when He allows us to benefit others. Watch and pray for the circumstances to be favorable to help the choleric, for example, when he becomes more receptive.

A Preview …

In our next lesson we will discuss more ways a choleric can be on the alert for his pride and how to master his pride. In addition to this, we will begin to discuss the associated weaknesses, such as, anger and how a choleric can better understand how this passion works in him. In this way he can use this passion properly and avoid further harm to his soul.

1 These weaknesses will be bolded later as they appear in the text for easy reference back to this list.

To Receive Our Lord’s Help on Earth and for Your Salvation, Read On

1

If you want daily help in your state of life, whether you are married, a consecrated religious, or single, develop a devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. In the 17th Century, Our Lord appeared to St. Margaret Mary and revealed to her His 12 Promises to those who have a devotion to His Sacred Heart and who promote this devotion.

Devotion to the Sacred Heart is a very certain way of becoming holy; Our Lord Himself gave us this devotion as a supreme means to gain our love.

To practice this devotion, it is very helpful to read, from time to time, the 12 wonderful Promises that Our Lord made to everyone who practices devotion to His Sacred Heart. These Promises reveal in the clearest possible way the immense personal and tender love Our Lord has for us.

Therefore, we should read them, slowly and carefully, at least on the First Friday of every month. They will awaken in our hearts boundless confidence in Our Lord.

All the 12 Promises are most important, but we call attention very especially to the 11th Promise:

Those who spread this devotion will have their names written on My Sacred Heart, never to be effaced!

We must repeat frequently the ejaculation:

Sacred Heart of Jesus, I have confidence in Thee, boundless confidence for everything.

This ejaculation is so powerful and efficacious that it has been called “The miraculous ejaculation.”

We ought to have a picture of the Sacred Heart, not only in our homes but in every room and on our writing table, just as we have the photograph of our dear mother. We can say frequently, “Jesus, I love You.”

No mother, no father, no brother or friend loves us so tenderly as Jesus does.

Those who practice devotion to the Sacred Heart in this simple and easy way have a guarantee of receiving the wonderful favors promised by Our Lord.

This Devotion to the Sacred Heart should be part of all religious instruction from early childhood to the time of death.

Well, that’s it: an easy way to become holy, with Our Lord’s promised help for our state of life on earth, and much help for our salvation.

1 The following is taken from An Easy Way to Become a Saint. Tan Books and Publishers, Rockford, Ill., 1990, pp. 60-61.


Words to Live by – from Catholic Tradition


Let us gladly suffer out of love for God!


St. John of the Cross, the Mystical Doctor of the Church, tells us the importance of suffering out of love for God:

Suffering for God is better than working miracles.


Quoted from his work entitled Other Counsels, #13.

Your Salvation Hinges on Your Love of God

The first of the Two Great Commandments is

Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with thy whole heart, and with thy whole soul, and with thy whole mind, and with thy whole strength.

Pray to His mother. I am sure she will help you to love her Son as you go through your day. Here is a good way to start your day. Pray the following devoutly first thing in the morning:

Everything I do today should be for the love of God and for His greater honor and glory.

Print these words out and put them on your alarm clock and they will remind you of the way to start each day.

We can see the goodness and perfection of God all around us. If we meditate on His goodness, we shall never tire of loving Him. We love our parents and friends because they are good. Their goodness is nothing compared to the goodness of God.1

So, let us ask God every day and in every prayer we say to make us love Him more. Above all, we must look on God as our most loving Father, our dearest friend, Who loves us with a personal, intimate, extraordinary love.

Love is an excellent thing, a very great blessing, indeed. It makes every difficulty easy, and bears all wrongs with equanimity. For it bears a burden without being weighted and renders sweet all that is bitter.2

Loving God is the first and most important step toward your salvation, so start today and continue until you stand before God for your Particular Judgment and say “I love You, Jesus”.

1 My Catholic Faith, Bishop Louis Morrow, My Mission House, Kenosha, WI., 1949, Ch. 85, p. 172.

2 My Catholic Faith, Bishop Louis Morrow, My Mission House, Kenosha, WI, 1949, Ch. 85, p. 173.

The Remedy for the Sadness and the Depression in Our Times

Catholic Candle note: The article below is a “companion” article to these four previous articles:

  1. The Hope Given to Catholics in the State of Grace vs. the Hopelessness of Godlessness. This article is found here: https://catholiccandle.org/2019/02/09/the-hope-given-to-catholics-in-grace-vs-the-hopelessness-of-godlessness/


  2. The Devil’s Lies Bring the Devil’s Unhappiness: https://catholiccandle.org/2024/08/28/the-devils-lies-bring-the-devils-unhappiness/

  1. The Connection Between Virtue and Happiness – Part One:  https://catholiccandle.org/2023/11/26/the-connection-between-virtue-and-happiness-part-1/

  1. The Connection Between Virtue and Happiness – Part Two:  https://catholiccandle.org/2023/12/18/the-connection-between-virtue-and-happiness-part-2/

We live in a time of sadness and desolation. Even in most of those homes which are considered “good Catholic homes”, there is a constant exposure to all of the elements of the world which are promoted by the enemies of God, of reason, and of our salvation.

In such homes, the atmosphere is permeated by the world, the flesh, and the devil – even though not to the same degree as in the rest of society. This sway of sin in the home is wrong because the first duty of every Soldier of Christ is to deny the Enemy access to his living room (as well as to his soul). We cannot control the character of the whole of society. But we can control the character of our own home. Our home should be very different from the world and should have a completely different atmosphere (e.g., complete Catholic modesty1, a regular prayer life (especially the rosary), daily meditation, no TV, no bad music, no video games, etc.).

The influences of the world can wear a person down, as he goes out into the world every day from (what should be) the Catholic haven of his home.2 The world constantly splatters his soul with the “mud” of this contact with unwholesomeness. This weakens his soul and make the spiritual life seem empty. In unfortunate contrast, this daily contact with the world tends to make pleasures as well as other earthly matters seem to be the most important aspects of life. The question “How can I save my soul?” can thus seem to be too distant from everyday life. Our spiritual efforts can feel weak and our Catholic duties can seem to be a dry, distasteful burden.

Dear Reader, is this how your own life and daily routine seem to you? This is a classic case of spiritual desolation. Here is how the great spiritual master, St. Ignatius of Loyola, defines this desolation:

I call desolation everything contrary to the consolation explained in the third rule, such as darkness of soul, disturbance in it, movement to things low and earthly, the disquiet of different agitations and temptations, moving to lack of confidence, without hope, without love, when one finds oneself all lazy, tepid, sad, and as if separated from his Creator and Lord. Because, as consolation is contrary to desolation, in the same way the thoughts which come from consolation are contrary to the thoughts which come from desolation.3

Dear Reader, do you recognize the movements of your own soul in St. Ignatius’s description? So many people nowadays feel this desolation! It is the direction in which modernity is pushing and pulling people.

Although God can (and sometimes does) give desolation in order to test even a very holy soul, the most usual reason for desolation is because of the person’s sins and his negligence in his spiritual duties.

Here is St. Ignatius’ advice for the person in desolation:

Although in desolation we ought not to change our good resolutions, it is very helpful to intensify our good efforts against the temptations that come during desolation, by insisting more on prayer, meditation, on much examination, and more penance.4

Dear Reader, you (and all of us) can do this! God will help us all!


Advancing in the Spiritual Life

It is natural for a person to ask himself: “How do I advance in the spiritual life?” After all, we are on this earth to save our souls. So, we know that we must do our best to advance in the spiritual life. This is the main “business” of our life. God did not give more time to our lives so that we can “try” to stay in the state of grace so that we avoid hell when we die. Such “trying not to backslide” is wasting the additional time God gives us! The reason God gives a person “another year”, is so that he can use this time to be one year holier and further advanced in the spiritual life.

Moreover, the greater a person’s progress is in holiness, the greater will be his progress in happiness. But how do we do that? Well, there are a few very important parts of this journey to holiness.

The secret of holiness is generosity with God. If a person asks himself: “What do I need to do to avoid sin and hell?”, that is a stingy minimum! If we seek to only do what “we gotta”, then the spiritual life will feel like a burden. Further, most people who seek to do as little as they can in the spiritual life end up failing and going to hell. For when a person aims so low, usually what he actually achieves is even lower.

But the spiritual life is Divine Friendship5 and so we should seek to be completely generous with our Divine Friend. We don’t have to feel generous but nonetheless we should resolve with our will to be generous.

Here is an analogous situation: when a parent is exhausted, is craving sleep, and is taking care of a sick child in the middle of the night, that parent is not doing so because of “warm and fuzzy” feelings, but because of the will to do his duty and to do good for his child! That is how our love and friendship with Christ should be – generous and firmly resolved in our will, regardless of feelings.

We must avoid occasions of sin, including eschewing persons who make it more likely that we will sin. We humans easily fool ourselves and make many excuses to continue to expose ourselves to the sorts of occasions of sin which have led to our downfalls in the past. To break out of this evil pattern, we must be unshakably firm in avoiding bad companions and other occasions of sin.

We have got to pray more, every day. Much more. Especially the rosary – ideally all 15 decades. We recommend the Catholic Candle articles to help you to pray the rosary better.6

We should implement and be faithful to making a daily meditation.7

We should study our Faith, especially through reading the Doctors of the Church, and most of all, St. Thomas Aquinas, the greatest Doctor of the Catholic Church. This study is “meat” which gives us strength to “bear the slings and arrows” of life. The Doctors are the ones that the Church especially holds out to us as our teachers for studying the Faith. Reading a Sunday sermon from one of the Doctors is a valuable part of accomplishing this duty every week.

We should avoid bad music. Church music and real classical music are the best.

Don’t watch TV and movies. We should avoid most things on the internet, especially “social media”. Each of these, even aside from the many sins they involve, also weaken us and make the spiritual life (and prayer) distasteful to us.

In these times of confusion, we should study true apologetics to help us to guard against the errors which are all around us. One way to discover more about how Vatican II is contrary to the perennial, infallible teaching of the Church is to study Lumen Gentium Annotated.8 Vatican II’s document, Lumen Gentium, is, in a way, Vatican II’s own overview of all of its errors in its other Council documents. Thus, by discerning the errors of Lumen Gentium, we see in general all of the errors of the rest of the Council.

In addition to studying the doctrines of our Faith, we should do some spiritual reading every day, e.g., at least a chapter of the Imitation of Christ every day without fail. We should prepare for and make/renew the consecration to Our Lady as her slaves according to the program of St. Louis de Montfort.

We should do some extra penances every day. Three really good ones are to take totally-cold showers, don’t eat between meals, and abstain from junk food and desserts, at least when not sharing them with others on a social occasion.9

This is a time of great blessings! We hold that this is a glorious time to be Catholic and to live for Christ the King! https://catholiccandle.neocities.org/faith/it-is-a-blessing-to-live-during-this-great-apostasy.html

We must have the Virtue of Hope because God is in charge and everything that happens that is out of our control is God’s Will for us. As a means of encouragement, we should keep in our thoughts that all things “work together unto the good, for those who love God”.  Romans, 8:28. https://catholiccandle.neocities.org/faith/hope-during-the-current-great-apostasy

Again, you (and we) can do this! God will help!

2 For an analysis of the importance of the irreplaceable work of the wife, mother, and heart of the family, in making this home a haven, read these articles:




3 Quoted from Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola, Rule #4 for the Discernment of Spirits, First Week.

4 Quoted from Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola, Rule #6 for the Discernment of Spirits, First Week.

5 Read these articles which explain this crucial truth:




8 Lumen Gentium Annotated, by Quanta Cura Press, © 2013, available at:



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